Grace

“Waiting for Better Days” by Matthias-Haker

 

Yes
I see you my love
and I know you
intimately

you have worn your life
with grace and dignity
and here you stand
in your regal
glorious
tatter

your wisdom and strength
laid bare
for all to see

and you have shown me
your true heart

so
oh yes
I see you
I see you my love
how can I not

you are beautiful
so very beautiful

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rob kistner © 2022

Poetry at: The Sunday Muse

Poetry at: dVerse

 



37 thoughts on “Grace”

  1. It is the dream of each of us to find another who will see us for the beautiful creatures we are as-is. Maybe that’s why god made love, so we might have the capacity to see another in just that way… Beautiful poem, Rob.

    1. I wrote this piece envisioning an older couple, not a room. An older couple who have truly loved each other since they were young, and through all the ‘blemishes’ that occur in life, physical and emotional, even some inflicted upon each other. I believe if they/you have experienced that level of genuinely inclusive love, the “true heart”, the tatter may be visible, but the ability to ‘see’ the fully realized “beauty” of that other person in their life requires no training — it just ‘has become’ Chrissa, because that “vision” has already been manifest in the essence of the relationship. One might argue that they “trained” themselves to see it — but I feel that training was not so much a single decision, or even equally bilateral, but more a byproduct of patient, enduring love, to which they were committed. It may also have come to be by a greater patience on the part of one of the individuals more than the other. No matter the path of the relationship, even if there is an imbalance (which likely there is after many years), it can still arrive at that place where they both come to “see” the authentic “beauty” in the other.
      oh yes
      I see you
      I see you my love
      how can I not

      you are beautiful
      so very beautiful

  2. How lovely to receive a poem / message like this ~~~ any day of the year. Especially tomorrow. Lucky, lucky recipient.

    1. I am just a sucker for love Helen, and I am not certain I will ever fully understand it. It took me five “significant m/f relationships in my life, including 2 failed marriages, and finally a 3rd 35-year enduring, though not always perfect, marriage — but I have finally come to know, and appreciate, the feeling, and the lasting value of enduring love… 🙂

      1. My poem is actually about enduring love and respect ~~ my first husband, father of our four children, blessed to know he and I will be friends, co-parents and people who once loved each other .. forever. I also love and respect his wife. We are indeed a blended family.

  3. Seeing through the “tatter” is what gives meaning to life.
    Such a pity some people are more aware of their tatter, than of the heart seeing through it.

  4. Of course— the words are the best I’ve read today about true love. Who wouldn’t want to be the ‘subject’ in this poem. Love it to pieces. Thanks so much.
    I’m also drawn to the image you chose.
    To me, it says that even if around us is in tatters our space is holy. Holy because we made it that way.
    Love this.
    Blessed are those for whom this is a reality. A great testament to life of purpose. Thanks for sharing this. xo

    1. thank you. It was the way the photo moved me Ain. I think a small part of me needed to hear it. I have moments when my age, my health, my grand failures, my difficult childhood, my uncertainty regarding what’s coming threaten to diminish or negate everything I have had in life – a wonderful life, including all the blemishes. I have done battle with insecurity my entire life, and still do. Amazing how one picture can shine such a vivid light on that. Guess I was doing z bit of self therapy.

  5. A beautiful poem to gift someone on Valentine’s Day..? And here, I see fifteen year olds like me searching for that perfect relationship… 🙂

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