Sweetest of Tears

 
Across the chasm of time
and great distance
memories unfold

vividly rich
like elaborate origami sculptures

fragile as the paper of an old map
opened and reopened a 1000 times
they are creased deeply
with sepia memories

heading east
cresting the great divide
beginning the decent
into the past
through these soaring ramparts
of sky-piercing mountains
I envision what lies ahead

forests
tier upon tier
of enormous sitka spruce

of scattered brewers
known as the weeping spruce
the most beautiful of the conifer

my mother loved them

whose branches in sunlight
following a summer rain
display raindrops
as a jeweler’s velvet
showcases diamonds

I hear the whispers
of wind-stirred
lawson cypress
towering ponderosa pine
and douglas fir

I inhale deeply
the tangerine-scented white fir

a heady fragrance
rivaled only
by the rough-tufted red cedar

the dogwood’s brilliant leaves
big-leaf maples
pendulous western maples
tight ranks of dark-green sadler oak
unfurl below me

still traveling my mind’s vistas
I see the golden shimmer
and I hear crisp crackle
of white-barked aspen

my father’s favorite tree
reminded him of Canada
his country of birth

these all still live and breath
in my younger-days heart
calling me forward
down into the valley
and across the planes
of a childhood long ago

this morning’s sun
came crisp and bright
enfolding my waking
in warmth
and vivid presence
as the world awoke
fresh and fascinating

I embarked early
after eggs
juice
toast and jelly
the sweet and salty taste
lingering
of a homecoming
too long overdue

my soul is full
my mind is clear
my heart — overflowing
but my sprit is tentative

when dusk settles this evening
and early shadows
fall soft across my face
I will round Miller’s Corner
as it comes into view

worn
withered
but warm with recall

my wooden framed
childhood home

abandoned now to ghosts
specters of a youth
spent surrounded by love
by laughter
by learning
and by loss

one of the ghosts
in that old house
is my mother
who passed within its walls
on a summer day
not unlike today
as I sat sobbing
in my room
down the hall

my father kept me from her room
he feared the sickness that took her
might take me

so I never really
got to say goodbye to her
nor goodbye to the laughter
that died that day

nor goodbye to the smile
on my father’s face
for it was never seen again

it disappeared
as did my father
into deep debilitating depression

shortly after mother passed
I was moved away
to live with my aunt
in Oregon

today I will return
to say a long delayed goodbye
to my mother
and to lay my father to rest
in the cemetery
behind the dilapidated old church
where once they wed

he will at last
join with his dear wife
my sweet mother
the women he loved so
that his joy died with her

a cloud of sorrow
sweeps my mind
momentarily obscuring
my purpose and destination

then the fog wafts
and again I envision
across the veiled valley
of time and change
the hearth and home
of my birth

long faded
into yesteryear

now
sweet recall
and those distant memories
pull me onward

I am sad
but it’s a bittersweet sadness

tomorrow
my father
will again
be with my mother
ghosts
in our old house

as I return
I pray his smile
will at last return
he deserves to smile

my mother loved his smile
I love them both

down out of the mountains
into the twilight
of final goodbyes
I redouble my pace

the sweetest of tears
cloud my eyes

*

The poem is fiction, the love is not.

*
rob kistner © 2022

Poetry at: The Sunday Muse

 

This song evokes memories of my father, who passed July 1983, at the age of 66.
Also of my son, who passed July 1985 is at the age of 18.

8 thoughts on “Sweetest of Tears”

  1. Oh, Rob, this poem spans an entire lifetime. I love all of the tree descriptions, and then the segue into the personal narrative. Such big losses, your father at 63, your son at just 18. Heartbreaking.

    1. Glad you liked this piece Sherry. It was certainly strongly influenced by the James Blunt song which I stumbled upon, then posted with the finished piece. The primary spark was the picture of the house Carrie posted, which looks a lot like my first childhood home, were it worn and withered to that degree. End of July is also the month both my father and my son passed, though in very different years. They are always on my mind in July. The melancholy runs strong for me in July, and I love melancholy, so I enjoy writing sad poetry. Forests are my muse. Canada was also a big part of my childhood summers, so that is how that crept in. That is also where the white birch entered the piece. They are all over Canada. My father called them “canoe birch”. My father did not drink, and he died years before my mother — so those were purely conjured for drama. Once triggered, the piece just kept unfolding, and I just followed where it led.

  2. Old houses do have ghosts if we’ve been there during their hay days. I’m sure there were some in mine, remembrances back when I’d play with the other kids there while our parents played. Your trees, I’ll take the dogwood, especially when it’s in bloom.
    ..

    1. The house I grew up in in Mt Healthy, Ohio was originally built in 1893, as a large, one-room, country school house — with a single attached room for the teacher. The area was originally called Mt Pleasant, later named Mt Healthy. It was remodeled in 1938 to make it a five-room house — it was full of ghosts.

  3. I have a question Rob, I have been searching for a specific image to use for a Tiktok post I am doing. Is the image of the red chair yours, or is it free use? I would like to use it for something I am doing.

    1. If you are referring to the red diamond-tufted leather chair, featuring wood legs and wood arm inserts, pictured against the stone wall, next to the torchiere with a black linen lampshade — that is a promo marketing image, from a boutique, small-batch, classic furniture reproduction company, whose products I used to buy at wholesale, to sell at retail in my contemporary furniture store in Cincinnati. I closed my store in 1990, when Kath and I moved to Oregon. The marketing image is probably around 40 years old. I know longer have the master image The company was called “Posh Refaire”, out of High Point NC — and they went out of business in 1993 — so I wouldn’t see any problem with you using that photo. I have never had any issues. Unless the photographer who took it is still around somewhere. That I don’t know.

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